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ARBITRATOR / MEDIATOR / SETTLER

patience

I can put up with other people's moods. I prefer that to starting an unnecessary conflict.

peace

I value peace and harmony – I find comfort and security in them

compliance

I don't like making decisions. I'm happy to accept suggestions presented by others

flexibility

I can adapt to any situation and circumstances I find myself in

stability

You always know what to expect from me. I like things that are predictable

Nine she strives to ensure that her world is peaceful and harmonised. She can sense growing tension or an impending conflict from afar. Depending on the state she is in, she either flees from such situations or acts as a mediator. She is an exceptional peacekeeper. She has an extraordinary ability to see and understand both sides of a dispute. This skill means that inclusivity is not merely a nice corporate buzzword for her, but a living value. The Niner knows how to make every person feel welcome, listened to and understood.

What gives To the Nine The sense of security is peace. She loves spending time engaging in simple life pleasures – a good meal, a walk, watching a series or reading a book. The Nine shuns extreme experiences and adventures – anything that arouses strong emotions and is unpredictable. She does everything she can to protect herself from anyone who could disturb her peace and from anything that could disrupt her carefree world.

The fact that Nine the fact that she is generally calm and balanced does not mean that nothing at all is happening inside her. Constant vigilance and sensitivity to the tension around her mean that the Nine has to put a lot of effort into suppressing “negative” and unpleasant emotions – facing them costs her too much. However, none of these feelings evaporate – emotions gather inside her, like lava in a volcano, until it boils up inside the Nine to such an extent that all these feelings overflow in an uncontrolled, violent manner. 

To the Nine It is hard to set your own boundaries and be assertive. She would rather take part in something she has no desire to do at all than risk upsetting anyone. Her unconditional reflex is to follow the path where the fewest potential obstacles await. The Type Nine shuns problems and difficulties. She strives to make her life pleasant, predictable and comfortable. She equates her own comfort with a sense of security.

Nine he is the grey eminence of the Enneagram. Seeing every possible perspective may be a virtue in interpersonal interactions, but it is a massive obstacle when the Nine has to make a concrete decision. They frequently experience intense inner conflict and withdraw from action, not knowing what choice to make.

She prefers to operate at a calm, measured pace rather than take part in the race being run by everyone else around her. Even her speech seems slower than that of people with a different type.

This is connected with the belief Nines that it does not possess sufficient energy resources and endurance to face challenges or problems.

HEALTHY IDENTITY
95%

A healthy Nine radiates a secure, stable energy. They remain deeply connected with themselves and others, which becomes a source of peace and strength for them. Grounded self-awareness becomes the foundation that allows the Nine to reveal their true nature. They do not allow anyone to push them around or use them for their own ends. In this state, the Nine retains their ability to not judge others and to understand the perspective of every party, which makes them an effective mediator. They help people understand one another and build a bridge between one bank and the other. 

AVERAGE IDENTITY
65%

A Nine in average condition feels that at all costs they must avoid conflict and get along with absolutely every person. Their kindness, light-heartedness and friendly disposition make them liked by others. In this state, the Nine smoothly follows the needs and preferences of other people, ignoring their own desires. Eventually, tired of this state of affairs, they become numb and withdraw from interaction with the world. Extreme passivity also makes others feel frustrated with contact with the Nine.

Identity Crisis
35%

A Nine who is completely thrown off balance cuts themselves off from the world to such an extent that they completely neglect both themselves and others. They fall into an extreme stupor, feeling lost and disconnected from themselves. They are weighed down by a total lack of energy and belief that they would be capable of undertaking any action and bringing about changes in their life.

“Only calm can save us”

 

– motto of the NINES

THE NINE NEEDS

  • outlining the perspective of each person
  • the comfort provided by predictability and routine
  • to feel safe, accepted and heard

THE NINETEENTH IS AFRAID

  • being a party to any conflict
  • allowing oneself to experience “negative” emotions
  • the necessity of making difficult decisions

STRENGTHS

  • tolerance and acceptance of diversity
  • calmness and composure 
  • ability to adapt quickly
  • mediation skill
  • sensitivity and empathy

Disadvantages

  • indecisiveness
  • inactivity and dilatoriness
  • passive-aggressive behaviour
  • stepping into the background
  • belittling / downplaying problems

WHAT CAN I FEEL BEING A NINE

  • I don't feel up to facing this problem.
  • I'm frustrated making a decision – each one has just as many pros as cons. 
  • I'm afraid of confrontation – I don't want any disruptions in my life!

LIES THAT THE NUMBER NINE BELIEVES

  • I shouldn't defend my rights. 
  • My needs and desires do not count.
  • Keeping the peace is more important than me. 
  • Nobody notices me, nor does anyone understand me.
  • I am not special.

UNHEALTHY IDENTITY / STRESS / CHAOS

Disintegration
TOWARDS 6
When in a state of disintegration, Nine adopts the unhealthy traits of Six. In place of composure and a calm disposition, there emerges intense anxiety, hypersensitivity and a need for protection against external threats. Their mind is filled with a race of thoughts rushing towards the blackest of black scenarios. Instead of striving as usual to explain, alleviate or even ignore these feelings, the disadjusted Six allows them to escalate to dimensions that no longer have anything to do with reality.

HEALTHY IDENTITY / WELLBEING / DEVELOPMENT

Integration
TOWARDS 3
The Harmonised Nine draws on the healthy traits of the Three. Instead of withdrawing and suppressing their desires, they become more proactive. They begin to understand their own worth and know what contribution they make to their surroundings. They discover that what they have to say is important and worth listening to by others. Remaining true to themselves, they actively engage with the outside world. The desire for inactivity usually experienced by the Nine gives way to a willingness to take action, a drive for achievement and a desire for self-expression.

Signature quotes

  • Nine
    “No, I'm not angry. Everything's fine.                  
    Nine
  • Nine
    “I need a break from it all.                
    Nine
  • Nine
    “I don't mind. We'll do it your way.              
    Nine
KNOW YOUR TYPE

Enneagram

The Enneagram is a system that organises both human potential, made up of its strengths and bright sides, and its deepest shadows, flaws and frustrations. It reveals how our identity is constructed and what stimuli bring out the best – but also the worst – in us. It allows for a deep understanding of which subconscious patterns drive our behaviours, influence our decisions and either facilitate or hinder the execution of everyday tasks.

The Enneagram reveals nine fundamental personality types. Each of them is guided in life by a different motivation, leans towards different things, and tries to stay away from different things. 

PERFORM TEST PERFORM TEST
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Nine

Arbitrator / Mediator / Settler
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JEDYNKA

Reformer / Perfectionist / Pedant
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Number two

Assistant / Donor / Carer
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Trojka

Conqueror / Member of the action
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FOUR

Individualist / Tragic romantic / Eccentric
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High five

Investigator / Thinker / Observer
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SIX

Loyalist / Devil's advocate / Guardian
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SEVEN

Enthusiast / Epicurean / Visionary
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Figure-of-eight

Leader / Boss / Warrior