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REFORMER / PERFECTIONIST / PEDANT

mastery

I don't let on that I'm struggling with something

perseverance

When I have a goal, I won't rest until I achieve it

mindfulness of detail

Whatever I produce must be free from flaws

responsibility

I take full responsibility for what I have committed to

consciousness

I can see what needs improving and I have the courage to tackle it

JEDYNKA she perfects the world. She knows what does not work in it as it should. She has a strong moral compass and takes ethical action aimed at leaving the world better than she found it. She intuitively knows what is good and what is bad. She does not compromise – she is ready to fight for what is right and just. When her identity is healthy, she is able to accept certain imperfections of the process in pursuit of her chosen goal. However, consumed by her shadow, she will completely withdraw from action until she is absolutely certain that everything she is associated with is perfect.

JEDYNKA constantly strives for development. Her thoughts and actions are focused on continuous improvement – of herself, other people, and her environment. In each of us lives an inner critic – a quiet voice that constantly evaluates our actions and their results. In the case of Ones, the inner critic does not whisper in the ear, but shouts through a megaphone, pointing out every tiny mistake or shortcoming. It is extremely vigilant, constantly active, and merciless in its harsh judgement. Ones are often accompanied by a sense of shame. The source of this shame is precisely the taunting, cruel voice of criticism resounding in their heads. 

JEDYNKA she fears receiving an unfavourable assessment. She meticulously tries to avoid making mistakes, and if they do occur, she immediately attempts to correct them. She feels helpless and ashamed when someone “catches” her in moments when she is far from her own ideal. In childhood, the One felt strong pressure to be a “good child”. She did not want to cause trouble or worry for anyone. Always responsible, dutiful, conscientious and diligent, she lived in the hope that by being perfect, she would finally earn the longed-for love / attention / appreciation from her nearest and dearest. 

Only child It is very difficult to relax and rest. Her need for the continuous improvement of herself and the world means that she always finds something to do that seems more useful to her than regenerating her own resources. Apart from making a mistake and being criticised, the One fears only one thing – wasting time. On the other hand, when she is not certain whether her competence is sufficient, she postpones carrying out tasks or making decisions, engaging in substitute activities.

HEALTHY IDENTITY
95%

The healthy One shines by example – living according to the values it professes. It can inspire others to incorporate these ideals into their lives, but in a way far removed from lofty judgement. Its integrity and deep inner wisdom make it a just judge and a powerful teacher. In a healthy state, the One becomes a champion of the pursuit of development and truth, while at the same time tolerating the imperfection of human character.

AVERAGE IDENTITY
65%

The average Type One is consumed by a sense of personal responsibility. Immersed in fantasies of an ideal state of affairs, they constantly feel dissatisfied due to the discrepancy between these ideals and reality. This tension drives them to intensify their efforts to fix themselves, other people and the world around them. Their attitude and worldview are often rigid and do not allow for views differing from their own. In this state, the One will not forgive anyone even the smallest mistake—everyone will be pointed out and criticised. Their moralising approach and constant criticism cause people to start pulling away from them.

Identity Crisis
35%

Number One, completely derailed, will go to almost any lengths to impose their version of “Truth” on others. In this state, they justify their own mistakes and try with all their might to hide the fact that they are doing the exact opposite of what they preach.

“IF YOU ARE NOT DOING SOMETHING WELL, DO NOT DO IT AT ALL”

 

– the motto of Jedynek

JEDYNKA NEEDS

  • a strong moral code guaranteeing fair conduct
  • being perceived as balanced and composed 
  • the feeling of being good enough, thorough and organised

Number One is afraid

  • making mistakes
  • acting on ambiguous motivations 
  • distortion of her natural sense of right and wrong by her personal desires

STRENGTHS

  • strong internal moral compass
  • can think critically
  • high self-control and strong self-discipline
  • focus on quality
  • responsibility
  • independence

Disadvantages

  • toxic perfectionism
  • aggressive criticism of other people
  • hypersensitivity
  • excessive pride
  • moodiness
  • self-pitying tendency
  • rigid worldview
  • analysis paralysis in a situation of uncertainty / chaos / mess

WHAT MIGHT I FEEL BEING AN ONLY CHILD

  • I'm sick of being responsible for everything and having it all on my plate!
  • I am not good enough to deserve… (a promotion / a family / success etc.)…
  • I'm afraid that someone will notice that I actually don't know (…) / can't (…)

LIES BELIEVED BY THE ONES

  • You must not make mistakes.
  • Everything should be done the way I think it should.
  • When I fail, others bear the consequences.
  • Perfection is achievable.
  • I'm not good enough.

UNHEALTHY IDENTITY / STRESS / CHAOS

Disintegration
TOWARDS 4
In a state of disintegration, the One reaches for the unhealthy traits of the Four. It turns its tendency towards aggression inwards, withdraws, isolates itself and becomes excessively involved in internal criticism. In this state, it is overwhelmed by a sense of guilt and shame. It also addresses other people in an arrogant, judgemental and condemning manner. In this state, the One is prone to self-pity. It is extremely irritable and easily bursts into unbridled anger.

HEALTHY IDENTITY / WELLBEING / DEVELOPMENT

Integration
Towards 7
In the state of integration, Type One finally manages to quieten the voice of their inner critic. They allow themselves to feel carefree, joyful and optimistic, which lets them experience relief and a sense of freedom. A healthy Type One still works diligently, but does not get bogged down in overthinking. They stop being driven by the thought that they must earn what they want to have in their lives. They accept others just as they are.

Signature quotes

  • JEDYNKA
    “I don't understand how others can be satisfied with such mediocre results? There is still so much to improve in this project / task!”  
    JEDYNKA
  • JEDYNKA
    “How could I have been so stupid and made that mistake - I should have seen it coming! I'm useless at everything...”  
    JEDYNKA
  • JEDYNKA
    “Until I get this certificate, read this literature and finish that course as well, I cannot start taking action - I lack the competence”
    JEDYNKA
KNOW YOUR TYPE

Enneagram

The Enneagram is a system that organises both human potential, made up of its strengths and bright sides, and its deepest shadows, flaws and frustrations. It reveals how our identity is constructed and what stimuli bring out the best – but also the worst – in us. It allows for a deep understanding of which subconscious patterns drive our behaviours, influence our decisions and either facilitate or hinder the execution of everyday tasks.

The Enneagram reveals nine fundamental personality types. Each of them is guided in life by a different motivation, leans towards different things, and tries to stay away from different things. 

PERFORM TEST PERFORM TEST
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Nine

Arbitrator / Mediator / Settler
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JEDYNKA

Reformer / Perfectionist / Pedant
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Number two

Assistant / Donor / Carer
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Trojka

Conqueror / Member of the action
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FOUR

Individualist / Tragic romantic / Eccentric
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High five

Investigator / Thinker / Observer
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SIX

Loyalist / Devil's advocate / Guardian
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SEVEN

Enthusiast / Epicurean / Visionary
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Figure-of-eight

Leader / Boss / Warrior